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As an adult, have you ever asked a partner to slow down?
As an adult, have you ever asked a partner what kind of affection they prefer?
As an adult, have you ever asked for more time before making an intimate decision?
As an adult, have you ever asked for reassurance during an intimacy discussion?
As an adult, have you ever asked to stop an intimate encounter?
As an adult, have you ever changed a boundary after reflection?
As an adult, have you ever chosen nonsexual closeness during a difficult period?
As an adult, have you ever chosen not to pursue a sexual relationship?
As an adult, have you ever chosen to take a break from sexual activity?
As an adult, have you ever chosen to wait before becoming intimate?
As an adult, have you ever decided not to create intimate photos?
As an adult, have you ever discovered that nonsexual affection mattered more than you expected?
As an adult, have you ever discussed body-image concerns with a partner?
As an adult, have you ever discussed changes in intimacy after illness?
As an adult, have you ever discussed contraception with a partner?
As an adult, have you ever discussed expectations about exclusivity?
As an adult, have you ever discussed how culture shaped your expectations?
As an adult, have you ever discussed how fatigue affected your interest?
As an adult, have you ever discussed how to respond kindly to rejection?
As an adult, have you ever discussed privacy around intimate photos?
As an adult, have you ever discussed privacy while sharing a home with others?
As an adult, have you ever discussed STI testing before intimacy?
As an adult, have you ever discussed what should happen to private images after a breakup?
As an adult, have you ever explained that affection was welcome but sex was not?
As an adult, have you ever explained that your desire had changed?
As an adult, have you ever expressed a preference that differed from what a partner expected?
As an adult, have you ever felt more connected after giving honest feedback?
As an adult, have you ever felt relieved after an honest intimacy conversation?
As an adult, have you ever felt that a respectful conversation reduced embarrassment?
As an adult, have you ever found scheduling intimacy helpful?
As an adult, have you ever found spontaneous affection helpful?
As an adult, have you ever initiated a conversation about intimacy boundaries?
As an adult, have you ever learned communication skills through a reputable educational resource?
As an adult, have you ever learned more about asexuality?
As an adult, have you ever learned more about different sexual orientations?
As an adult, have you ever learned that a partner understood intimacy differently from you?
As an adult, have you ever listened to a partner revise a boundary?
As an adult, have you ever planned uninterrupted time for closeness?
As an adult, have you ever practiced saying a boundary clearly?
As an adult, have you ever recognized a stereotype you had absorbed?
As an adult, have you ever reconsidered a belief about adult sexuality?
As an adult, have you ever revisited a relationship agreement?
As an adult, have you ever set a boundary about explicit media?
As an adult, have you ever sought a more reliable source after encountering misleading sexual information?
As an adult, have you ever sought information about intimacy and disability?
As an adult, have you ever sought sexual-health information from a healthcare professional?
As an adult, have you ever talked about a mismatch in desire?
As an adult, have you ever talked about how stress affects desire?
As an adult, have you ever thanked a partner for respecting a boundary?
As an adult, have you ever used written communication to explain an intimate preference?
Can strong emotional attraction develop before physical attraction for you?
Can you feel romantic attraction without sexual attraction?
Can you feel sexual attraction without wanting a romantic relationship?
Could a casual adult relationship become a satisfying long-term partnership?
Could you personally be happy in a committed relationship with little or no sex?
Could you personally be happy in a consensually nonmonogamous relationship?
Do you find shared laughter can restore closeness after an awkward moment?
Do you prefer affection to be verbally requested or offered spontaneously with attention to your response?
Does a secret dating-app profile count as cheating in your preferred relationship agreement?
Does familiarity usually increase or decrease your attraction to a partner?
Does flirting with someone else count as cheating in your preferred relationship agreement?
How acceptable is consensual nonmonogamy when all adult partners freely agree?
How acceptable is it for adults to choose a celibate life?
How comfortable are you asking a partner about recent STI testing?
How comfortable are you asking for affection when you feel vulnerable?
How comfortable are you challenging a sexual stereotype in conversation?
How comfortable are you expressing that you do not want a particular intimate activity?
How comfortable are you initiating a first kiss after establishing mutual interest?
How comfortable are you receiving a sincere compliment about your appearance from a partner?
How comfortable are you receiving affection when you feel vulnerable?
How comfortable are you saying that you lack experience in an intimate situation?
How comfortable are you saying that your preferences have changed?
How comfortable are you talking about differing needs without assigning blame?
How comfortable are you telling someone that you find them attractive?
How comfortable would you feel dating someone who prefers to wait until marriage for sex?
How comfortable would you feel discussing a need for more privacy at home with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing activities you do not want with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing body-image insecurities with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing boundaries about sharing details with friends with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing boundaries when traveling together with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing changes after childbirth when relevant with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing changes after illness with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing changes associated with aging with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing changes in sexual desire with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing concerns about pregnancy when relevant with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing contraception when relevant with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing cultural or religious concerns with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing different levels of experience with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing differing expectations about frequency with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing disability-related access needs with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing expectations about exclusivity with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing feeling nervous with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how medication may affect intimacy with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how stress affects desire with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how to check in without pressure with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how to give gentle feedback with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how to handle an accidental privacy breach with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing how to respond to a refusal with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing interest in or boundaries around explicit media with an adult intimate partner?
How comfortable would you feel discussing intimacy during a routine healthcare appointment?

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